welcome

This blog is meant to be a safe place for anyone who has to deal with the aftermath of being with a porn addict. I know in today's society it is not a big deal to many, but to some of us, its cheating & we do NOT want it in our marriage. I am one of those women :) This is my safe place, my haven. This is where I will pour out my heart & soul, & be honest. This is a new ministry God has laid on my heart, to reach out to others in this struggle. If you happen to find this blog & are dealing with it too, feel free to comment. Know you are not alone.

Sunday, February 28, 2010

This is the beginning

I am starting this  new blog, as a place to pour out my thoughts, my pain, my struggle & hopefully, reach out to others who are in my position.

I know many do not agree with me, but to me porn is cheating. My husband (who shall remain anon for the time) knows this.  The first time I found out he was looking at it, I asked him about it, & he lied.  Finally he admitted it to me & I was honest about how I felt. He said he would quit. We got consuling & things seemed better. We got married & he was "clean" for almost a year
Until this week when I found out he was looking again. He said he started again about a month  ago. About when I started showing.
This blog is my journey through this pain. I want other women out there, who are NOT ok with it, thats it OK not to be. Men don't need to look at it, not all men do. If a wife is not ok with it, she should not be insulted, bashed or anything cause of it.
This is a place for healing for me, & maybe, for others.
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